Single?

Or She's Pulling Back?

Most men panic when she pulls back. You won’t....

👉 Stop Chasing, Start Lead and Attracting

And Get Results like Jon in under 12 Weeks 👇

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THIS IS NOT "PICK UP" ITS MASCULINE LEADERSHIP AT ITS PEAK 🏔️

Mastering Masculine Social Dynamics

Videos, Templates, Reviews, AI... Everything...

I ASSUME YOU HAVE HEARD THE QUOTE "YOUR MOST IMPORTANT INVESTMENT IS THE PARTNER YOU SPEND MOST OF YOUR TIME WITH?"

Well that quote is true and it works in reverse... if you choose someone who is NOT a good match the break up can cost you.... everything.

Lock in and read this page 👇

👇 WHY WOMEN PULL AWAY (AND HOW TO STOP IT)

Most men are trained to respond, not lead.

Explaining instead of directing

When she pulls away, these are the traps you fall into:

1. Over-Pursuing

You double-text, over-explain, or keep “checking in.”

She reads: pressure, not presence.

2. Silent Treatment / Withdraw

You ghost her back, hoping she notices or shutdown and ignore her.

She reads: emotional immaturity.'

3. Reassurance Hunting / Flexing

“Are we good?” “Where’s this going?” flex money or career

She reads: you need her approval to feel valuable

4. Love-Bomb

You go heavy on connection… then collapse when she cools.

She reads: unstable leadership.

5. Nice Guy

You struggle to leave or reject women, you don't want to feel bad

She reads: I need to fix him

Each one lowers attraction, authority, and trust.

Fix these… and women don’t just stay, they chase you.

"I am meeting and networking with people I have always wanted to and I have an ABUNDANCE of women" - David L

P.s. Watch the whole video.. wild

These are real men applying the framework not theory, not pickup

👇 WHAT YOU GET INSIDE

Communication That Actually Works

Learn how to speak clearly, directly, and honestly without coming off like a jerk or a people-pleaser. Say what you want without aggression. Communicate in a way that builds connection and sexual tension.

Attract and Keep A High-Quality Woman

You’ll stop chasing women who drain your energy and start attracting women who match it.

We’ll teach you how to create sexual polarity, emotional safety, and respect without losing yourself.

No manipulation, no games just presence, boundaries, and truth.

High-quality women respond to men who know who they are and after this, you’ll become that man.

Tools for Leading in Intimacy

Learn the practical tools and embodied skills to create sexual connection safely. Understand how to build desire through presence, tone, and emotional grounding, not manipulation.

Confidence That Lasts

We rewire your nervous system so confidence stops being situational. You’ll feel grounded in your posture, your eye contact, your words everywhere you go.

This isn’t “fake it till you make it.” It’s a calm certainty that stays.

Practical Tools Not Wishy Washy Content

These aren’t hacks or theories. They’re principles that show you how attraction, respect, and long-term partnership actually function. Once you live by them, you stop chasing and start leading.

Set Masculine Boundaries & Standards

Set clear non-negotiables for dating, relationships, and leadership.

Learn to say no without guilt and still be respected.

Reframe “nice guy” behavior into calm masculine authority.

Build discipline, self-trust, and consistency that men feel and women notice

Real Brotherhood & Accountability

Experience what it feels like to be around men who actually hold standard. Leave with a tribe that calls you forward, not out.

Honesty without judgment. Real support instead of isolation.

A circle that keeps you sharp long after the event ends.

Rewire Your Nervous System

You won’t “try” to be confident you’ll become it.

Through breathwork, feedback, and masculine embodiment, we retrain how your body holds energy under pressure.

You’ll stop shaking, fidgeting, and overthinking and start walking, talking, and leading with calm certainty. When you walk into a room, women and men alike will feel it that quiet authority that can’t be faked.

"Attraction fades by habit,

not by accident. Fix the habit, you fix the pattern."

MEMBERS SAY THIS:👇

👇 4 Biggest Barriers That Push Women Further Away:

1. Trying to “Teach Her a Lesson.”

Snapping, lecturing, or calling her out feels like strength.. it’s just reactivity.

She doesn’t learn, she realises she can trigger you.

That trains her body to feel tension, not safety.

The more you chase, the further she goes.

Lead by staying grounded.. that’s what makes her lean back in.


2. The “Silent Punishment/Treatment”

You go cold to make her miss you.

She doesn’t see power... she sees immaturity.

High-value women don’t chase punishment... they move on.

Boundaries create respect. Silence creates resentment.

Say less, lead more.

3. Communicating Neediness

Reassurance texts, over-explaining, checking her stories all say:

“I doubt my worth.”

She feels that instantly.

Fear of losing her is what makes you lose her.

When you rebuild belief in your value, she feels it without words.

That’s real leadership.

4. Trying to “Prove You’re the Good Guy”

You start explaining yourself, apologising for things you didn’t do, or over-communicating to look emotionally intelligent.

She doesn’t see kindness, she feels pressure.

Women don’t chase men who seek approval.

They chase men who own their value.

Fast wins in 7 days attraction is a side effect

THE MSD SYSTEM

(SEEN IN 10 SECONDS) 👇

1) Calibrate & Self Audits (Days 1–3)

Nervous-system drills to hold tension under pressure. Voice, eye contact, stillness. She feels safety without you selling it.

2) Communicate (Days 4–10)

Polarity & leadership scripts for real life: framing, bids, boundaries, escalation without neediness.

3) Constraint (Weeks 2–4)

Standards that create trust: time, pace, intimacy, consequences. You stop proving. She starts investing.

4) Leadership Embodiment (4 Weeks +)

Out with the old nervous system in with the new.. takes real world practice so lets go

Fast wins: noticeable shifts in 72 hours; external results in 7–14 days if you run the drills.

Join now .. your first week sets the tone and habits integrate immediately

"Most men buy when they break. Leaders buy before they crack"

WHO THIS IS FOR 👇

The High Performer

“I’m too busy right now.”

“Business is full on….maybe the next one.”

What you actually mean:

You only feels safe when you’re in control. The idea of being seen struggling threatens his identity. You hide behind work because he can’t stand not being the expert in the room.

What you need:

“You’ve mastered performance in business. MSD teaches performance under pressure in presence, leadership, and attraction.”

“If you can’t pause, you’re not leading…. you’re reacting.” You don’t need another plan. You need calibration.

Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

The I Already Know It

“I know all this stuff already.”

“I’ve read Glover, Tate, Peterson… I just need to apply it.”

What you actually mean:

You’re scared to be the guy who “still doesn’t get it.” You hide behind intellect because emotional risk feels like failure.

You’re addicted to knowing… not changing.

What you need:

“You already know the theory. But knowledge without calibration is noise. MSD gives you the feedback loop your brain’s been avoiding.” You don’t need another book. You need men who can see your blind spots.

Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

The Man Who Has Been Burned

“Been through a breakup… not ready yet.”

“I just don’t want to open that door again.”

What you actually mean:

You’re terrified that feeling again means reliving failure. You intellectualises his pain and tell yourself you’re ‘healing,’ but your frozen in guilt and shame.

What you need:

“This isn’t rehashing your past…. it’s re-patterning it.

Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

The Over-Thinker in Dating

“I just don’t want to say the wrong thing.”

“I want to be respectful.”

“Women are confusing…. it’s easier to focus on work.”

What you actually mean:

You’re terrified of rejection and shame. “Respectful” is code for “emotionally safe.” You’re scared of tension… the thing that actually builds attraction.

What you need

A container where polarity is felt, not theorised to hold tension without over-talking it

You don’t need pickup lines Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

The Self-Improvement Junkie

“I’m working on myself right now.”

“Already doing breathwork, therapy, cold plunges…”

What you actually mean:

You’re addicted to momentum but allergic to stillness. You’re doing spiritual busywork that feels productive but avoids intimacy.

What you need:

“You don’t need another tool. You need to feel what all those tools were trying to teach.”

Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

The Hustler

“I’m crushing it in business… but my personal life is flat.”

What you actually mean:

You’ve defined worth by income and results.

But value isn’t translating into relationships, influence or connection.

You’re performing externally missing internal fulfilment.

What you need:

“Your status paid off in business. Now it needs to work in your presence, attraction and legacy.”

Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

The Ghosted Nice Guy

“I don’t get why she just stopped replying.”

“I’m always respectful women just go for jerks.”

What you actually mean:

You’ve confused approval for attraction. You play safe hoping she’ll notice but safety never stirs desire.

What you need:

MSD isn’t about being nicer.

You’ll learn to create attraction through grounded tension not over-giving


Join the APP below and start rewiring leadership in real time

If you see yourself in any of these, you’re one calibration away from leadership that women feel

You don’t need another plan.

You need calibration.

Join The APP below

& Rewire leadership in real time

👇Why THIS Works When PICK UP Doesn't

No tricks. No fake dominance. No sleazy cold approaching.

This is biological attraction + nervous-system regulation + leadership psychology.

Women don’t chase text lines; they chase presence.

You’ll build the internal signal that makes lines optional.

How long until I see change?

Men who follow the prompts report shifts within 72 hours, external results inside 7-14 days.

Do I need looks or status?

No. Presence beats pretty. The framework is field tested on tradies, PTs, and execs alike.

Is this just text scripts?

No. Scripts are wrenches; presence turns the bolt.

What if money’s tight?

That’s why we have 3 Tiers and paid in quarterly discounts.

So you can rip the bandaid off make one payment and not have to worry about monthly payments coming out.

Choose the one that works for you And if it doesn’t deliver, you get refunded. Risk = zero.

Ethical?

Completely. Built on leadership, clarity, and respect, no manipulation.

Busy schedule?

If you can’t find 30 minutes to fix the one area affecting every other area, it’s not a time issue it’s a priorities issue.

NO MORE MESSING AROUND...

IT'S TIME TO TAKE ACTION. YOU HAVE POTENTIAL TO ACCESS...

YOU WOULDN'T HAVE GOTTEN TO THIS PAGE IF YOU WEREN'T READY

Why Now? 👇

Most men wait until it’s too late

until she’s gone, the messages stop, or he realises the silence in his own head is louder than hers.

The truth?

Attraction has an expiry date not because she stopped caring, but because you stopped leading.

Right now, your habits are hardening.

Every day you stay reactive, your nervous system trains weakness into your leadership.

Wait long enough and this version of you becomes permanent.

You don’t rise when you feel ready

you rise when you’re cornered and decide this is the moment you become the man who never loses himself again.

Men who join now aren’t buying a course.

They’re cashing in on the window where pressure turns into presence.

This isn’t motivation.

It’s the identity reset that happens when you act while it still hurts.

Because when the pain dulls, the urgency dies.

And once urgency dies, growth does too.

Your habits are hardening. Every day you delay, your edge dulls.

Walk Away With 👇

Real Presence, Not Performed Confidence

You stop chasing. You stop guessing.

You walk into any room, and people feel you before you speak.

Women relax around you. Men respect you. You become the calm in every storm.

Authority in Dating & Relationships

No more over-texting, over-explaining, or walking on eggshells.

You learn how to communicate like a man who’s grounded — not proving.

You lead conversations, decisions, and attraction from strength.

Emotional Control Under Pressure

You’ll rewire the part of your nervous system that panics when she pulls away.

No more “what did I do wrong?”

You stay centered and because you don’t break, she can.

Standards That Keep Women Chasing

You’ll stop being the nice guy who gets ghosted.

You’ll hold standards that make her earn your energy.

Respect becomes automatic. Attraction becomes natural.

A Brotherhood That Actually Sharpens You

No therapy circles. No fluff.

Just men who challenge you, call you forward, and demand your best.

You’ll realise you’re not broken you’ve just been uncalibrated.

Leadership Skills That Translate Everywhere

Everything you learn here bleeds into business, training, and life.

Leading a team. Running a household. Setting direction.

Presence isn’t just for dating it’s for life domination.

Clarity in Every Area of Life

You’ll know what you want, where you’re going, and who belongs beside you.

No confusion. No overthinking. Just clear direction and decisive energy.

Peace in the Masculine

You’ll stop performing for approval from women, work, or the world.

You’ll walk away with the kind of calm confidence that makes everyone follow your lead.

The Real Result:

You won’t just get the girl.

You’ll become the man who never loses himself trying to keep her.

"M.S.D. Changed My Life I Now Lead, I Got The Woman I Wanted And I Influence & Lead My Social Circle" - Mark H

FAQ's 👇

WHAT’S THE COMMITMENT?

You don’t need to flip your life upside down. 

Ten minutes a day inside the App is enough to start momentum. 

Some men binge the trainings on weekends, others plug in before work.

It’s designed for busy men structure that fits into real life, not another job.

CAN I DO THIS IF I ALREADY HAVE COACHES OR I’VE DONE MEN’S WORK BEFORE?

Yes this doesn’t replace what you know, it sharpens it. 

MSD gives you frameworks and drills that plug into any growth you’re already doing. 

It’s inexpensive and its an APP. I am sure you use apps every day. This one stands out to help theory to become integrated.

MSD is also unique.. there is nothing else like it. It’s such an asset to you and you’re coaching journey.

WHY SHOULD I PAY WHEN I CAN FIGURE IT OUT MYSELF?

Time… my brother. Time is your most impiortant resource. This is 10 years of work, research and embodement distilled down into an app. Chat GPT doesn’t know this or has any researouces to figure it out. You would have to spend a year using Chat GPT just on this to learn and find out. AND then YOU actually have to learn it.

Podcasts, books, YouTube all information with no integration. Inside here, you’re guided, challenged, and held accountable. Most men don’t need more advice; they need to be seen doing the work.

WHAT IF I’M NEW TO THIS STUFF?

Perfect. Beginners move the fastest because there’s no ego to protect. You’ll get structure, coaching, and community from day one so you’re never lost or left behind.

It’s also really simple. MSD concepts are frameworks, tools and laws that you can just.. use.

If you get confused we have a forum you can ask questions.

We have coaching to help you integrate and learn.

And MSD is so new.. everyone is pretty much new to this.

So you are one of us.

Thanks for letting us to guide you on your journey to finding the right woman and becomiing the leader you’ve always wanted to be.

I DON’T HAVE TIME.

This app was designed to save you time. 

You don’t need hours you need focus. The App trains presence, not busyness. What you learn here will actually give you time back because you’ll stop leaking energy on overthinking, people-pleasing, and distraction.

If you can text people for work, listen to music or podcasts, scroll on apps and watch a video. That is all you need.

Get headphones play the videos, listen to them while you’re driving we encourage that. When you are doing the dishes, before you go to bed. When you are having a coffee. Or just some time on the weekend.

What you learn with leadership.. time spent searching or looking for dates or women.


Will give you hours back. Instead of having to do everhything yourself.. You create and shift your lifestyle to make it happen

All tools taught in the app. Just done by listeninig and talking to us inside.

I’VE DONE OTHER PROGRAMS AND NOTHING STUCK.

That’s because they kept you in your head. MSD drills are built around nervous-system regulation, communication, and embodied leadership. You’ll feel it in your body not just understand it intellectually.

You have to actually take action in real life and you will once you learn the laws and tools.

You have to take new actions to get what you want.. especially with women.

Especially when becoming a leader.

Or this won’t work.

So if you aren’t willing to take action then this app is NOT for you.

WHAT RESULTS CAN I EXPECT?

You’ll communicate cleaner, hold stronger frame under pressure, lead better at work, and attract higher-quality women through calm confidence. Every result starts with you showing up the rest compounds fast.

And as you learn the world feels like there is less pressure and everything starts to feel easier its weird. You will experience way more flow.

Women will just give to you effortlessly 

People will take your direction easily

Every room you walk in.. people just want to be around you.

Not becuase you’re some big energy.. but just because you’re so integrated.

This means you will just attract way more opportunitiies.

And you will have to get really good at saying no.

Because you will be saying it way more than yes.

Can’t please everyone and jump on every opportunity when they are throwiing themselves at you

WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT?

Most men’s groups talk about masculinity. We train it. MSD gives you live challenges, daily practices, and a brotherhood that doesn’t let you hide. You’ll get direct feedback from coaches and men living the same standard.

MSD is also completely unique. There is nothing like that. Yes some of this is really deep shadow work and purpose work to help get you clear.. when needed.

Majority is just so practical its shocking.

I am excited for you to learn and embody it.

IS IT TOO DEEP OR INTENSE FOR ME?

Only if you keep pretending you’re fine. Everything here is done with safety and structure you control your pace, but you’ll be stretched. Growth without chaos.

And its all so simple and practical.

There may be a few things to face off with.. but you have to face them off regardless.

You can do it with us and learn the practical tools or by yourself.

Regardless we got you

WILL I HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO COREY?

Yes. I’m in the App most days commenting, coaching, checking progress. I lead live calls, drop new content, and speak straight to the community. You’ll hear from me, not an assistant.

Please ask me anything.. I LOVE questions.

I will msot likely get you back with a video if its a big one.

I want to see everything. Can’t wait.

WHAT IF I FALL OFF?

You won’t disappear. The system’s built for real life reminders, check-ins, and a brotherhood that calls you back in. Falling off is part of the process; the difference is you’ll actually come back stronger.

And if you stop using the program.. turn on your email notifications 

We will text and email you to get you back on board.

If you go ghost mode we will call your ass.

And we also don’t want to be doing that.

That ruins the integrity of the app

You want masculine leadership.

Time to start being masculine and show up.

WILL THIS HELP BEYOND DATING OR CONFIDENCE?

Yes this work bleeds into everything. Business, money, leadership, relationships. When you become grounded and disciplined in who you are, everything else aligns.

Results we commonly see is:

More travel.. way more travel

More money and better deals in business

New businesses

Studying new degrees more aligned with career path that is wanted

Marriage or children

People getting into the best shape of their life

Job promotions

These happen.. ALL the time.

IS THERE COMMUNITY SUPPORT?

Want to fit in around men and really feel like you belong. Get charged up and supported by a group of men who genuinely what you to win.. not take away from you.

We will celebrate every one and lift you up

We will lift your head up when your chin is down

But most importantly we are in this together.

We will connect you with the WHO you need to know 

❤️

IN THIS MEMBERSHIP, YOU WILL LEARN & APPLY MASCULINE LEADERSHIP

EDUCATION

COMPLETE EDUCATION PACKAGE

$57 / month

(When Paid Quarterly)

Start Here Learn Presence

• Private Community Access

Presence Foundations

Dating Strategies Playbook

MSD Level 1: 10 Simple Pillars for dating leadership and communication

Purpose Course: Re-connect to Mission

Social Dynamics AI

👉 Best for men who are ready to stop messing around and finally get traction in dating.

ENTOURAGE

COACHING & AI PACKAGE

$257 / month

(When Paid Quarterly)

Master Leadership

• Private Community Access
• Weekly Live Coaching & Hot Seats

• Personalised Video Breakdowns

• MSD Level 1- 4

• New Monthly Education

• Tools for calibration, attraction & influence

• Social Dynamics AI

👉 Best for men who are serious about building Presence, attracting a high-quality partner, and leading relationships with certainty.

DIAMOND

REQUIREMENT: LEADERSHIP POSITION

$697 / month

(Pay Quarterly: The Next Level Retreat Free)

Get 1:1 coaching from Corey &
Dominate

• Exclusive WhatsApp Thread With Corey

• 1:1 Coaching Calls with Corey

• MSD Level 1–4

• The Next Retreat Level (Free) and Workshops

• Social Dynamics AI Tools

• Exclusive Diamond Member Only Group Calls

• Personalised Networking

👉 Best for men in their 30s–40s who want piercing presence to supercharge intimacy, and fulfilment beyond the material

Meet the Founder

corey boutwell

Hey Stud,

This is my story..

I grew up chasing perfection.. building muscle, money, and status trying to prove I was enough.

I didn’t know how to be vulnerable without losing control.

Relationships fell apart. I buried myself in work thinking it made me strong.

It didn’t. It just built a better mask.

Everything changed when I stopped performing and started leading myself not from fear, but from calm clarity.

That shift built what you see today: a man leading leaders, not performing for approval.

What Makes This Different

Most coaches sell hype. I live the discipline, structure, and tension I teach.

This isn’t theory.. it’s field-tested through business, body, and relationships... I have done, lived and breath everything I talk about.

Been to hell.. been to heaven, learned MSD and currently in the drivers seat and it's awesome.

It’s leadership training for men who want to command presence in life, not fake confidence online.

I’ve worked with millionaires, founders, and leaders who looked successful but felt disconnected.

After guiding 300+ men to rebuild confidence, power, and presence

I realised: mastery isn’t more "learning". It’s more truth and authenticity.

I haven't been creating this more than revealing it.. the concept is already there.

We are applying it in real life.. my life has changed, my friends and my clients

That’s what Masculine Social Dynamics gives you.. results YOU want.

What I Stand For

• Discipline: Systems that work when motivation doesn’t.

• Courage: Moving through fear not waiting for it to fade.

• Clarity: You can’t lead anyone if you can’t lead yourself.

• Action: Most men talk. Few execute.

• Authenticity: No fake alpha. Just grounded truth.

• Integration: Strength means results in every area — business, body, relationship, and inner world.

The Invitation

You don’t need to be fixed, unstuck etc. you just need clarity, more embodied confidence and leadership skills.

This is about remembering who you already are: focused, capable, and built for more.

You’ll walk away sharper , calmer, and more connected... a man others trust to lead and respect to make decisions.

👉 Stop Sleeping Around And Feeling Empty...... And come home to a woman who adores you

When You Get Inside 👇

1. Command Under Pressure

• Breath/voice/tension control

• Grounded eye contact & posture

• Anti-reactivity protocols

2. Lead Relationships Naturally

Polarity & communication frameworks

• Boundaries that earn respect

• Intimacy leadership (without games)

3. Integration & Brotherhood

• Weekly coaching & hot seats

• Feedback loops (video + voice breakdowns)

• Men like you who hold a standard

Rebuild your masculine presence so women chase you even after she pulls away.

It’s not because she met someone else.

It’s because she stopped feeling your presence.

When most men sense that loss, they make one of three moves that kill attraction instantly.

You can’t talk a woman back into attraction.

You have to become the man she feels safe and drawn to again.

This is what Masculine Social Dynamics does for men in 72 hours - 14 days after applying to your social life

For:

Men who take ownership, can give 30 minutes/day, and value direction over drama.

Not For:

Men seeking revenge, shortcuts, or manipulation.

Don't Wait Till The Next Mistake Join Now 👇

THE M.S.D. METHODOLOGY

M.S.D. is Masculine Leadership rooted in:

Authenticity +

Brotherhood +

Nervous System integration =

Strong Masculine Leadership

If you are not authentic.. you have got other men around you to sharpen your sword and you can regulate yourself..

You will always remain a follower

You will forever be looping around in the cycle of being close to your goals.. never being satisfied and knowing that you could've done more.

or gotten better.

And that IS NOT good enough.

Don't be the guy thats always chasing women and getting no where.

Or the simp husband that does everything his partner says always stepping on eggshells

Thats not a man.. thats a defeated boy

You deserve so much more.. but you will only get it when you get out of your head... stop overthinking and analysing all the time

And lead with integrity as a man

M.S.D. Is the sword that gives you the courage and the power to enter the cave, slay the dragon and come back to the community crowned as a king.

Cuts the B.S. and use practical tools

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